Tuesday 21 April 2015

The biggest luxury of life !!

No matter how many tantrums I throw to trouble her, the first tear that is shed for even the slightest scratch on my body is my mother's.
No matter how many miles away from home I am, the first person to run to my rescue and bring me home is my father.
No matter how much I fight with her and irritate her, the first person I find support from in times of need is my sister.
No matter how many tantrums and fights I have with him, or how long the distance is, my husband is always 'The Last Train Home' for me.

I live thousands of miles away from home, but that doesn't change any of these things at any time.
It's amazing how families don't grow apart with distance but grow stronger instead.

Friday 3 April 2015

Why confront something when you can avoid it !!

P.S. The title is not an exclamation by mistake, it is so on purpose!!

What in life is worth a confrontation that will definitely lead to a feisty heated argument?

I have had a lot of situations in life where I had to confront people and call them out for their wrongs.
And trust me, I mean it when I say 'A LOT'. I confronted the people that hurt me and pretended to be right in doing so. I could walk away, but these people were worthy of a fight. You know the kind of fight that you have when you need to hold on to some person for life and you can not just let go. The fight when you don't want the relationship to die because of some stupid misunderstanding or miscommunication or something even sillier than that. But these fights were all in my head. Yes, the fights weren't real.